Tamil marriage is simply a feast for the eyes, involving all
kinds of rituals that have deep meanings and emotions. It has been a tradition
for generations to perform each ritual for the well-being of the bride and
groom. Even so, they are quite opulent, with ceremonies and rituals given great
attention.
Sumangali Prarthanai
On this day, all married women come together to celebrate
their marriage in style. This is a very important puja that is performed on
the occasion of Tamil Weddings. A Sumangali puja is performed for the married
woman who has been blessed with a happy and blissful married life. In addition,
only odd numbers of Sumangalis are invited to the puja. All the guests are
served authentic South Indian food served in banana leaves as part of an
authentic festival.
Panda Kaal Muhurtham
A Tamil wedding is a solemn ceremony that marks the union
between two families through marriage. It begins with the ritual of Panda Kaal
Muhurtham, where a man and woman perform religious prayers in front of God. Normally,
this ritual is carried out a day prior to the wedding.
Pallikai Thellichal
The ritual involves decorating seven earthen pots with
sandalwood. In the next stage, nine different types of grains and curd are
mixed together in the pot. These pots will later be immersed in water as fish
food. Due to the fact that it involves feeding fish, this is considered an
auspicious ritual for the couple's matrimonial life.
Naandi Srardham
For the bride and groom, this is the most important ceremony
in which pray for the souls of the bride's and groom's ancestors. Both the
bride's and groom's families perform this. Following a huge feast, inviting ten
or fewer Brahmins to their homes and presented with paan supari, bouquets,
sweet treats, coconut, fruits, and traditional dress, known as veshti
angavastram.
After this, the Brahmins are expected to bless the groom and
bride, saying: “May you be blessed with wealth and children.
Nichayathartham
The bride’s family performs a Ganesh puja and the
Nichayathartham or the engagement ritual starts here. After that, the groom’s family is giving
several gifts including jewelry, and a new saree, and the bride’s family offers
several presents to the groom too such as new clothes. The groom and the bride
will wear their new clothes.
Conclusion
Tamil weddings are a definite treat to not just the eyes but also the senses. The lively cultural dancing and the traditional ornaments used at these weddings offer an experience that sets apart from other types of matrimonial events.
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